You can find a ton of resources detailing every move to make and question to ask for planning your wedding. However, you will rarely find information on what will shock you about the planning process. I've decided to take a stroll off the beaten path and shed light on what you should prepare for. A bride-to-be's stress usually has nothing to do with colors, cake design, or catering...it's the stuff she didn't see coming. Read on and remember.
1. Everything will cost more than you think it should or could.
2. Your Parents/Grandparents have a guest list of their own. Make sure to include them when gathering your numbers for the rough draft of the guest list.
3. More Expensive Doesn't Mean Better. When choosing who you think the "best" vendors are for your day, consider more than just price. The more money you pay doesn't always mean the better the service or the higher the quality. Sometimes it just means you paid more. Always find out what all is included in the services you are seeking and weigh your options based on your value of the quality, style, service, etc.
4. Do-It-Yourself projects are not always your most cost effective option.
5. If they pay, they have a say! You aren't the only one with a vision for your wedding day. If someone else is picking up the tab or you've arranged to share the cost of the big event, be prepared to compromise (ie: PARENTS).
